This is the blog of a gay-couple who lives in an BDSM-Relationship and share their experience, minds and thoughts about the lifestyle in living BDSM.
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Monday, April 29, 2019
Insufficient Post-Quality: How should my slave be punished?
Dear followers,
as you perhaps know my slave has the order to also write posts for this Blog. Before his post are released, I read and evaluate them. In one of his upcoming Post the quality of the Post did not reached my expectations. So I ordered him to correct that. But for the insufficient quality he will receive a punishment and because you (the followers) would have been affected I want to give you the possibility to decide which kind of punishment he should receive.
Here the possibilities which you can choose from:
Thursday, April 25, 2019
Should your slave be allowed to work?
Many people who connect with us ask us if I'm allowed to work. In many SM-stories the slave stays 24/7 at home. Sometimes he isn't even allowed to leave the house. His Master leaves in the morning, the slave works all day at home for the Master and knees at the entrance till his Owner returns. I don't think that works in reality for long.
In my opinion slaves should not only be allowed to work, but they should be encouraged to have a job. Some Masters might disagree, but hear me out, I think there a several reasons why a slave should be allowed to work.
Thursday, April 18, 2019
Eating out as Master and slave
Even if you have the perfect slave at home that cooks for you and gives you a blowjob while you are eating - sometimes you want to or have to eat outside. Even though the waiters there are fully clothed and can not be punished if they do something wrong - like you can do with your slave at home.
Eating out can be different for a Master and slave couple in comparison to a vanilla couple. You have to decide how much you want to show that you are in charge or how much autonomy you give your slave.
Eating out can be different for a Master and slave couple in comparison to a vanilla couple. You have to decide how much you want to show that you are in charge or how much autonomy you give your slave.
Thursday, April 11, 2019
The System of Bonus- & Punitive Points for my Slave
To live the BDSM lifestyle it is necesairy to have system. A System which the slave can relate to. So over the years I created a system to ensure my slave have to do his slave duties and his chores in an appropriated quality! Furthermore I ensure with the system that it is in his interest to complete his weekly slave trainings which I plan for him. But let's start at the beginning.
To live the BDSM lifestyle means to bring together the private, family and business live in one. At the start I tried to plan exactly when I want to train my slave and give him the orders for his chores but life shows that is can be difficult. Spontaneous events came up and made it hard to plan so I decided to introduce a system. Why should I invest time and effort to find a free time slot for my slave to do chores and slave training?
To live the BDSM lifestyle means to bring together the private, family and business live in one. At the start I tried to plan exactly when I want to train my slave and give him the orders for his chores but life shows that is can be difficult. Spontaneous events came up and made it hard to plan so I decided to introduce a system. Why should I invest time and effort to find a free time slot for my slave to do chores and slave training?
Thursday, April 4, 2019
Ordering a slave to my hotel room
Unfortunately my slave could not come with me on my business trip to the US. So after a week of work and nobody serving me it was time for relaxing. And how can a Master relax the best? Correct, with a slave serving him.
I really put less effort in finding a slave and decided if I do not find something in the next minutes I will do something else for the evening. One profile received my attention and I wrote to the slave what I was expecting from him. He was ready to serve and I ordered him to come at a specific time to my Hotel room.
I really put less effort in finding a slave and decided if I do not find something in the next minutes I will do something else for the evening. One profile received my attention and I wrote to the slave what I was expecting from him. He was ready to serve and I ordered him to come at a specific time to my Hotel room.