BDSM events - How to start a converation.

As you perhaps have read, I sometime present my slave on BDSM events. I really like to see the faces from other people when they recognize that there is something really "special" about our BDSM-relationship. When they notice that my slave is still kneeling before me without moving a muscle while facing the exact same spot for over 30 minutes, only waiting to receive further commands, while I am drinking my beer or chatting with other people or when they notice that he only receives orders by hand signal.

Many people enjoy watching us and do not interact with us. There are others who begin a conversation or try to start an interaction. In this post I want to talk exactly about that. The do's and don'ts from our perspective, when you try to get in contact with a Master-slave couple.

1. Never touch without asking!
   The first and most important rule: Never touch an owned slave without asking his owner/Master! If you would touch my slave without asking me, I would immediately intervene! Ask first. How would you react if someone would touch, or worse, get inside your car which you tuned, customized and maintained over the years without asking? Exactly - it is a no go!


2. Have some style/manners!
   I have experienced some strange things on these events. I have no problem when people watch us or stare at us from a distant position. What I can't stand is when someone sits right next to me or my slave and stares at us with that extrem horny look in his eyes, where I have to fear that they would immediately fuck my slave when I am not watching! Furthermore I personally do not like when people start a conversation like "Can he suck my cock?" or even worse "Can I fuck your slave?". The creepiest question (as starter for conversation!) was: "Can I beat up your slave?". I didn't and don't train my slave as a whore! There are a lot of sexslaves out there which extremely like to be fucked. Use them if you want to fuck around! Therefore you do not need a well trained slave.


3. Be natural and be yourself.
   Don't play the hard Master or the most submissisive slave in the world! Be yourself and be natural! 

If you would ask me, how you would get my attention as a slave I would say I would be impressed when you kneel down before me and say something like: "I watched you now a while and I wanted to say that I really like what I see! I am XY how are you today?". In that case you would show respect, you would gain my attention without being demanding and I can decide the next steps. From  starting a conversation to perhaps even giving you a command like licking my boots or sending you away. Furthermore it shows me clearly your position. An other example what really happend you can read in this post.

For a Master: Focus on the Master, not on the slave. Of course you can start a conversation like "Nice view of you two!". Begin a conversation like you would do it in a restaurant or in public and of course in that conversation you can talk about BDSM and so on. But you will lose my attention when I notice that you are interested only Sex and not in BDSM! For others that might be perfectly finde, but not for me.

The best experienced example of how to come in contact with a Master-slave couple was in a BDSM club while we where traveling around. I decided to hold my slave naked for that event, only wearing his slave collar and his cuffs. I ordered him to bring me a drink and then I parked him in kneeling position in front of me. Out of nowhere someone asked me if the bar stool next to me is free and if it is okay when he can sit next to us. "This is a beautiful view of you two" - "Thank you" - "So you are visiting this city"... the conversation started about the city, from where we were, what we were doing. He had a calm voice and it was nice to chitchat with him and after 10 minutes or so he asked:  "May I pet your slaves head?". I agreed, so he petted my slaves head "Good boy, you are very well trained!". After that he turned back to me and we chatted about BDSM in general. How we see it and so on. After a while he asked friendly: "Would it be okay for you, when your slave would lick my boots?". I immediately turned to my slave and said "Into position 3 and lick the boots of this nice men!" "Yes, Sir!". While my slave was licking the boots of a total stranger I was chatting about everything and anything with that person. "I will grab a drink and look around. Perhaps we see us later again. Was nice to meet you." and he went away.

Later on, while I had my fun with my slave who was publicly displayed on a St. Andrew's cross, I saw that the person was also watching the scene. I gave him a hand signal to come over. "Here, you can enjoy my slave if you want." I stepped back and he began to enjoy my slave. He squeezed his nipple and balls while my slave was moaning. He enjoyed it and after he while he said: "Thank you! I appreciate that gesture!". He said farewell and went away.

He was fully natural, his manners were perfect and he was not driven by hornyness!
So the next time you see us at a BDSM event and you like what you see you can get in contact with us, just follow those simple rules and it can be a very pleasant, or for a slave unpleasant, evening.

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