Our BDSM-relationship around family

One user asked us after the post of "My slave collar" how we deal with our relationship and our families and if they are aware of this topic. I promised to answer it in a certain post.
First of all I think that every BDSM-couple addresses this topic differently, but I can tell you about our way.
No, our families are not aware of the type of our relationship. They are of course aware of our relationship and we are both together and alone in contact with our families. My Master does not limit the time I can have contact with my family, like some other Masters do it with their slaves.
If BDSM was a 100% totally accepted thing my Master would probably make it official that I'm his slave. But as that is not the case he does everything to not harm me and so he is for our families 100% my loving partner, which is not a lie by the way. He is my Master and my loving partner! But of course even when we are with family and vanilla friends I'm always his slave and so I serve him "secretly" and my Master gives me sometimes special orders for visits of family and friends.
Serving him "secretly" means that I also take care of his needs when we are with vanillas. Carrying his bag, offering him the nicer place to sit, serving him food and drinks, there are so many ways you can serve without other people noticing it and my Master loves it when I serve this way! For others I just might look like a very carrying partner.
Sometimes my Mater likes to give me some special orders while we are with vanillas to remind me of my slave status. That could be that I'm not allowed to have a special drink (for example no beer, or only limited to water), limited access to my phone etc. But again: My Masters sets each of the limits without harming me in my social interactions with others.
So you see, you can still be Master and slave and dominating and serving, without the others knowing every detail of your relationship.

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