Yes there is! And I think romance is no contrast to a BDSM-relationship. Of course every couple has to decide for themselves if and how much romance they want and need. But I can say that my Master and I enjoy those romantic moments. Other BDSM couples we know, wo also live a very strict BDSM-life, have their moments of romance too. Of course romance is totally different for everybody. For me it means showing affection, setting small actions to show how much you care about your partner and taking time for each other where you only celebrate your relationship.
So how does it look like within our relationship?
I sometimes leave my Master handwritten cards or texts telling him how much I love him and how much I love being his slave. But of course with all these romantic moments there is always our BDSM-life present. We also sometimes have a romantic candlelight dinner. But of course I eat out of my dog bowl at the feet of my Master after I have served him his food and drinks. And after the dinner Master uses the candles on my body. We also like to enjoy a special wine on special occasions. But of course it can happen that I only get to drink the wine my Master spits into my mouth.
Sometimes we spend the weekend at a romantic getaway and a luxurious hotel. You can enjoy a romantic hotel suite very much when you have got your naked and cuffed slave with you who serves you wine or champagne. And of course for me as a slave these weekends are also very romantic too.
Just recently my Master ordered food because I was out of town. When I returned I noticed he had also ordered dessert for me, because he saw my favorite dessert on the menu. For me this was so romantic that my Master thought about me and did something to make me happy.
And don't get me wrong: Of course the crop, the nipple clamps, cage and plug are always present! They are part of the romantic evenings and weekends in our relationship.
So if you are thinking of starting a BDSM relationship or thinking of turning your existing one in a BDSM relationship don't let anybody tell you that BDSM and romance can't exist with each other. Find your way how you combine them and how you both need them. BDSM is very much about trusting each other 100% and giving each other into the hands of the partner. And I can't think of anything more romantic!
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