Love and BDSM

I heard that some Masters can not dominate a slave when they have affection for them or love them. I have to admit I am different. I want to build up a minimum affection and grow a "relationship" to (some) slaves. Of course not the kind of "equal" relationship you think perhaps. As I discribed in earlier blogpost: Once a slave kneeled before me I can never unsee him as something else as a slave. Does that mean I can£t build friendship? No but it is an unequal friendship. Some slaves are good friends, some are more like an object were I do not chit-chat and my owned slave is my husband which I extremely love!

So you probably want to know how it is to be in love with your slave which you dominate and own. For me it is the key element that the BDSM lifestyle works and that my slaves goes deeper into slavery. I care about my slave and I have a deep connection to him. That is a very important part in the BDSM-lifestyle.

As I mentioned earlier some Masters can not dominate the person they love or have affection for. Our sociaty trained us to see partners we love as equal. That might be right for 99,99% of the person in this world but not for all. I have a deep desire to dominate and my slave has the deep desire to serve. There is nothing wrong with it! We do not belong to the 99,99% - we belong to 0,1% where a BDSM-relationship is the right relationship. We are both extremely happy with it and could not imagen to live our life in an other way. It is the way we are and we want to live. When my slave is tied up and at my mercy it is a sign of pure trust. Yes I hit my slave with the crop, I slap him, I use his body for my enjoyment or let him drink my Master piss. My slave is an inferior, my slave and my husband. To see him drink my piss or using the crop hard on him - seeing that it is not that easy for him - but he wants to make his Master happy, to be a good slave for his Master is a strong sign of love for me! He handed his being over to me and trusts me 1000% and at the same time he follows his desire of serving a Superior combined with the love for his Master. As I follow my desire of dominating, owning and training a slave combine with pure love to my slave.

I could not guide a slave in such an intense BDSM-relationship like we have if I do not love. It is the way we are.

If you have any question or comments about this post let me know in the comment below
or  Tweet to @MasterHusband

Find us also on Twitter: Follow @MasterHusband and Follow @GaySlaveHusband

 Blogentry #183