BDSM Outfits

First of all: In my opinion the outfit does not matter when practicing BDSM, especially when living the BDSM-lifestyle but it can underline a certain vibe or situation. Futhermore there is no right or wrong about outfits! For me personally I like to be authentic. Because of that I mostly wear my everyday clothes when I use and train my slave. It is who I am. Of course I have a "dress-code" for my slave or for a guest slave: They have to be naked, wear cuffs and collar. 

Before going further with my article I have to clarify that I do not have a certain outfit-fetish. I do not have a rubber or leather fetish. I find it aesthetic and I see the useful aspect in it. Of course there are people which have a certain fetish and for whom it is very import to wear these when practising BDSM because that is what drives them.

For me - and that is subjective - leather is for Doms and rubber is for slaves. Let me explain this further. A Master which wears leather can look more dominant in it. It can transfer a certain dominant vibe. But why is that so? Perhaps because of the nature of his origin? Leather outfits often comes with pockets which can be used to store stuff like cigarets, key, wallets or some small BDSM articles or simply imply that the person can have belongings with him.

On the other hand a rubber outfit is - in my opinion - for slaves. It objectives the slave. The slave has nothing to hide because the rubber is close fitting to the skin. Taking away the personality or distinctive characteristics from a slave by creating a second skin. Rubber outfits normally do not have any pockets which implify that a slave can not have any belongings on him. Therefore when objectifying a slave rubber is in my opinion the right material.

I do not need any kind of outfit to be a Master or to dominate a slave. But sometimes I am in the mood to show off my position by wearing an outfit which expresses and shows my being as a natural Master. Of course when visiting BDSM events I clearly want to  express my position as a Master so that other Masters or slaves know with whom they are "dealing with".

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