Cigars and BDSM

I am sure if you browsed through "BDSM" in social media you sooner or later stumbled across a picture of a Dom smoking a cigar and perhaps having a slave serving him in the meantime. In my young Master ages I also stumbled across such a picture and I have to admit I very liked the view of an "older" and at that time more experienced Master colleague smoking a cigar while using his slave. It really had something. Perhaps I should mention that I am a non smoker. But a cigar always had something special for me.

I tried my first cigar at university with my fellow students. We made it a tradition to enjoy a nice cigar after the last exam to celebrate the end of our semester. I really enjoyed smoking that cigar and it has something "superior" but it was for me clear that it will take some time until it would fit me - also in a BDSM context.

For me using a cigar in a BDSM context or also in a non-kink context comes with a condition: Age & expiriences. A long time smoking a cigar felt "wrong" for me because it felt unauthentic. But recently that feeling disappeared. I know, perhaps it sounds silly but I am now in my mid thirties. It does now feel "right" and authentic to me. Smoking a cigar is a status symbol - at least for me. It represents enjoyment, power, a kind of experience and in a certain way sucess. I can not tell why but it also has something "superior" - something exclusive and because it is something exclusive for me I only enjoy a cigar to special occassion.

Why does a cigar symbolice enjoyment and power? A cigar can last up to two hours - depending on what kind of cigar you have. Picture the following scene: Having a slave bringing you a selection of fine cigars, choosing your cigar and letting your slave prepare everything to enjoy it. Cutting it, lighting up the fire and then ordering your slave to fetch a matching drink - as example a good rum - afterwards ordering your slave serving the Mastercock while you enjoy the drink and your fine cigar for quite some time. This has somthing very classy for me and represents the "Master being".

Furthermore you do not have to worry about the ashtray - your ashtray is at your hand or in this case: at your Mastercock. On the other hand for me cigars are not for my slaves. My slave is therefore not allowed to enjoy cigars. It is the privilege of me as Master to enjoy them.

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