Looking back on the slave summer

We are back. Ok we haven't been really gone, but we kind of stayed a little bit more quiet here during summer, because summer is full of so many activities. Now it is time to reflect on the summer months. As you surely do not want tips for places to visit, of course I will focus on the summer as Master and slave with my Master. First of all it was great! We managed to take some time off and spend time together more intensivly at home and on vacation.

the BDSM paradox

Today I want to make some thoughts about the - I call it - BDSM paradox. I remember chats with slaves who wrote in the first line something like "you can do EVERYTHING you want with me, Sir". Let´s be honest: Every person has a certain (healthy) limit. Does it mean a Master can do EVERYTHING he wants? No, especially when you train a slave and guide him into submission. I like the analogy of building a house.

Involving vanillas "indirectly"

After posting a picture of my slave serving me in our holidays on twitter, a follower asked me if we tidy up the room from BDSM stuff. In that moment the idea of writting a blogpost about involving vanillas into the BDSM world came up. So here is my view on involving vanillas into BDSM.

How the different regimes/protocols evolved over the years

One Master on twitter recently asked how Master developed the different regimes/protocols over the years and if there where any dead ends.

I am very to answer this question, because it is an interesting topic and on the other hand I am happy to serve this Sir by answering His question.