Meeting Master D. and his slave

Shortly before the Covid-era began, I met Master D. online on twitter. I was fascinated by his blog and the lifestyle he displayed about the Master-slave-relationship with his slave and husband. Later on I also got sporadically in contact with his slave there. Over the last three years we chatted on and off and Master D. gave more insights about Master`s life. Especially during that time it was very helpful as I didnt meet lots of people and it was not easy to stay mentally healthy.

The difference between a Master turned husband and a husband turned Master

A Master asked me recenlty online if I could give some insight into what I think is the differecne betwenn a Master turning into a husband and a husband turning ino the Master. And of course I am happy to do so. First of all my husband was my Master first, only years later He also became my husband.

Trust and training - #FindOutFridayBDSM

On a #FindOutFridayBDSM I received the following question which deserves a proper response and therefore its own blogpost:

"How did you get to the point of training in the beginning? Was there lots of contract talk, hard and soft limit discussions, and/or meeting in public places? How did the trust happen? And how long did it take for him to trust you completely?"

The joy of waiting

Waiting is not seen in a positiv light in our society. Many people want everything and they want it now. Some have lost the ability to wait. But especially in the context of BDSM waiting is quite important and can actually bring a lot of joy. 

When and why I adress inferiors as "slaves"

First of all it is important to say, that everyone has a slighly different view on BDSM. Therefore this is my view on when and why I adress inferiors as slaves. I have to admit that I like calling an inferior "slave". The main reason is to actively remind them of their being and their position in the hierarchy and secondly it makes my life much easier because I do not have to remember their names. Furthermore the name of a slave is in my view not really important.