Thursday, September 21, 2023

Routines in the BDSM Lifestyle

Rules, structure and routines are essential when it comes to handling slaves. To condition your slave you need time, effort and passion. On the other hand you need to be strict but also understanding. 

After over a decade of slave training my slave fully accepts his position as an inferior male towards other Superiors. It learned that there is no shame in being a slave and it learned to embrace it. Accepting that it fullfils its live and brings joy.
Perhaps it sounds harsh to other people but I do not see my slave as a man - I see it as a male slave yes - but not as a man. There is only one real man in the house and therefore my slave has to live under my rules, structures and routines. So I decided to write an article about his daily routines.

As every day the day starts with waking up. As long as my slave has not to wake up too early I allow him to sleep with me in the Masterbed - but only if I am present - otherwise the floor is the place a slave has to sleep. As house slave it has to sleep naked with his cuffs, chasity cage - also to prevent wet dreams - and when sleeping in bed without a pillow.
The alarm in the morning is not only the indicator that a new day starts, it also means that the high protocol is in place.

If the working schedule of my slave allows it, it has to serve me appropriatly. It has to kneel at a precice time in front of the couch with my Master coffee. After my alarm goes off I go to the living room and enjoy my coffee while I read the news and brows through social media while my slave worships my Mastercock. After that I send it to the bathroom where it can prepare itself for work and leave the house.

During the day the high protocol stays in place. Therefore it has always to adress me properly to show the respect I deserve. It can of course ask questions or tell me about its day in the high protocol but always with an appropriate adress like "Sir"/"Master"/"Master D.". My slave is always allowed to ask if whe could switch into social protocol - in case of a special events or very bad days. As a good slave he rarely asks for it and if he asks I know something happend which requires the social protocol.

If we do not have any special plans my slaves comes home from work. Takes a shower and prepairs itself for service. Everything he has to wear is prepared in the bathroom. So he puts on his cuffs, collar and slave neckchain.  Mostly he finds also a plug to wear and its slavemask. I grant it a drink in its cage before it has to serve. It is a nice routine for my slave to transition from work into private life. As a apropriate welcome it has to lick my feet. When being in its cage I put my feet through the bar and let him lick them. After I let it out of the cage it serves me a drink and mostly I order it to do the housechores as well as prepairing the meal. After that the evening can go in different direction. It can be that I use my slave for my pleasure and entertaiment. That I do a slave training with it or that I order it into social protocol and we enjoy a nice film. It varies from evening to evening.

If we have plans for the evening like inviting vanilla friends I order my slave into social protocol before it comes home and we look like a normale couple but my slave still serves me.

At the end of the day my slave has to prepare everything for the next day. Preparing my office stuff, if I work from home therefore it has to tidy up the home office. Furthermore it has to prepare its stuff so that I will not get disturbed in my sleep.

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Blogentry #253

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

This is a beautiful article, written with clarity and passion for the lifestyle. As someone on the threshold of beginning its new life as a slave with its Master, this is so inspiring. It can only hope and dream in its slave heart that its own future daily routine can secure this kind of simplicity, beauty and order.