Happy Locktober!

As you know, I don't receive full orgasms any more and I am locked most of the time. So one could ask, what Locktober means to me? Well physically not that much changes. I am locked and I don't get to cum. Mentally I don't have the thought that I have to make it to the end of October to receive an orgasm, because I won't get any.

But still Locktober is very important to me. It is so great to hear all the different thoughts of Doms and subs on chastity, highlighting all the different aspects of it. Seeing each and every day on social media a ton of locked dicks of subs. Surprisingly more and more Doms are locking themselves up too! Being chaste seems to bring joy for many. It is great hearing how people are happy, when they got past another day, hearing the encouraging words of others when someone struggels. 

Tips about finding your Master/slave

I often get the question "What can I do to find a Master/slave?". I think it is time that I write my thoughts down. One thing in particular has to be clear: It needs your effort and of course luck.

Being in the dark about meetings

As you might have guessed: Master loves being in control and showing me that He is in control. One way He loves to show me that is by leaving me in darkness about meetings. Meetings with BDSM context to be precise. We share an online calender and I am ordered to keep it up to date always. So whenever I have to work late, there is an event or there is a vanilla meeting I have to write in the calender. So that Master knows which days and weekends are free for Him to plan. As soon as He has planned a BDSM meeting Sir marks the day in our shared calender as booked. So I know that I can't plan other events there.